Here is the Epilogue to the book – The Way, My Way.
Epilogue
To walk the Camino is to do a pilgrimage.
That’s what I did – I became a pilgrim.
I followed in the footsteps of millions of other pilgrims who, over the years, the decades, the centuries, have made their way to Santiago.
What did I learn?
GRATITUDE:
I learnt to be grateful. Grateful for simple things.
For a bed at night. For clean clothes in the morning. I was grateful when it didn’t rain. I was grateful when the pain receded.
I learnt the meaning of gratitude.
HUMILITY:
I learnt humility.
My pain humbled me.
Other people humbled me too –
People who walked much further than me. People who had pain much greater than mine.
Ultimately though, I was humbled by the occasion. By just walking the Camino.
That in itself was humbling.
THE POWER OF THE INCREMENT:
I learnt that you can achieve big goals by taking small steps.
A lot of small steps.
But only if you don’t give up until you reach your goal.
MY POSSESSIONS ARE MY BURDEN:
I carried everything I needed on my back. Up and down mountains, across plains, over rivers.
My possessions were my burden. Anything unnecessary was an unnecessary burden.
It’s the same in life. My possessions are my burden.
JUDGE NOT:
There were so many times I judged people.
People I thought old and frail. People I thought not as capable as me.
Actually I mis-judged them. I was wrong.
I learnt that you must never judge, and never underestimate others.
WE ARE MORE CAPABLE THAN WE REALISE:
I discovered I was more resilient than I realised. I was able to overcome obstacles I didn’t think possible.
And I saw miracles.
My pain left me on the Meseta. My eyesight improved. But perhaps the greatest miracle of all is that I changed.
YOU BRING FORTH WHAT YOU FEAR THE MOST:
I learnt that what you fear the most, you bring into your life.
I was scared of climbing high mountains. And because of my anxiety, I made it everything I feared.
Even before I left for Spain, I was scared my knee would thwart me.
It did.
What you fear, you attract.
I CAN TRUST MY PGS:
I learnt I could trust my PGS – my Personal Guidance System – my intuition.
It shepherded me along the Camino.
The times I ignored it were the times I had difficulties.
The times I trusted it were the times I experienced something wonderful or profound.
EVERY DAY IS A PILGRIMAGE:
I learnt that you don’t need to walk the Camino to be a pilgrim.
You can be a pilgrim every day of your life…
If you see that your life IS a pilgrimage.
WHAT DID I ULTIMATELY LEARN?
That the only thing that matters – that truly matters – is love.

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