We each walk through this world and we form certain opinions about others based on their appearance, their trappings.
That person has a Rolex, they must be rich.
That person has sneaky eyes, they must be untrustworthy.
That person lives in a caravan park, they must be destitute.
These are judgements we have made based on very superficial factors.
The person with the Rolex might be bankrupt.
The person with sneaky eyes might have cataracts.
The person who lives in a caravan park might have millions in the bank.
The Camino is one of the few places I know where it’s very hard to make those kind of judgements, because there’s often very little to make judgements on, other than attitude and behaviour.
Most pilgrims don’t take expensive jewellery or watches on the Camino. Most pilgrims wear the same kind of hiking clothing. You can’t make judgements on them based on what car they drive, or what house they live in.
Often you meet a pilgrim and you have no clue if they’re a judge or a janitor.
The Camino, in that sense, induces a base level of status. Very few come to the Camino with their status on display. And if they do, often the Camino strips them of that status in very humbling ways.
That’s not to say pilgrims don’t immediately judge. They judge the “trueness” of the pilgrim, often by asking the seemingly innocent question: Where did you start?
That’s far from an innocent question.
If the pilgrim being asked that question states Pamplona, or Burgos, then the pilgrim asking the question, having walked from Le Puy or Seville, can puff themselves up a bit and think they are a “truer” pilgrim, whatever that means.
Of course, like any form of judgement, it’s based on ego, a need to feel superior, which in turn stems from lack of self worth, and ultimately fear.
Largely, and I say largely, the Camino is a leveller. People who, in their lives back home, might be famous, might be rich, might wield enormous power over others, sit down at communal tables, eat €10 pilgrims meals, and you’d never know.
And in the end, what does it matter? It’s who we truly are that matters, not what resources we might have accumulated elsewhere.
The Camino helps us find out who we really are…
The Camino is a great leveler on so many levels, Bill. And I miss it so! Great photo as well!!! Much love to you and Jen.
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You’re at home on the Camino, aren’t you Laurie. It holds so much resonance for you. You’ll be back there soon, I’m sure!
Are you still at the ashram? Very fond memories of our time spent there on Bill and Jen’s tour. Wonderful experience.
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Hey Mate, This is the kind of post that started me following you years ago. Back to basics for the moment, huh? Best to you and yours.
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haha – yes, thought it was time to do a dedicated Camino blog. Have been having meet ups and dinners with a few Camino people lately and I was reminded how important our Camino bonds are. Good to hear from you – Jen and I send big hugs and best wishes for this year. Bill
So true. And isn’t that one of many facets of the Camino that draws us to it? The freedom to be who we really are…
Thank you, Bill
You’re exactly right Fran. There’s probably only the military and jail which are the only other real levellers. Thanks for your comment!
Hi Bill, just been reading about Henri Bergson. He is of the same thought re PGS as you.
Funny thing, and one of life’s little gifts is:
Jason’s son, Quinn and his wife, Stav, live at Henri Bergson 8 – somewhere in Israel, not sure as I’ve not been there yet.
I googled Henri Bergson and thought of you and your book immediately.
Just had to share it with you
Thanks Jane – I will check him out! Very curious! Bill
Yes, it is a great gift of the Camino. It teaches one a lot about assumptions we tend to make. Love the post 💕 like getting a phone call from a friend you haven’t heard from in a while.